I can hardly believe that it’s been over a month since I stepped off the plane in Auckland. Well a month and a half now as I’m back in Europe for work and my poor blog took a backburner for a week. My bad. It’s been 30 days of ups and downs, highs and lows, everything you might expect from a big move abroad.
New Zealand has been everything I wished for and more. It’s almost hard for me to articulate my feelings and emotions so far on this adventure. That being said, it takes a lot for me to be at a loss for words. Born an overly verbose person who has trouble shutting up at the best of times, I’ve spent the past few weeks contemplating this big transition abroad and how best to share it with you all in the least wordy way possible.
Reflecting on my first month in New Zealand, if I had to sum up my experience in one sentence, it would be, “wow, that was a learning experience.”
Let me just tell you, I’ve learned a whole hell of a lot. From improving my kiwi slang vocabulary to acquiring some profound life lessons, the old adage “you’re never too old to learn something new” has never been more true than my first month down under.
Check out 20 things I’ve learned during my first 30 days in New Zealand
1. New Zealanders are the friendliest people in the world
Before I bought a one-way flight to Auckland, I had heard mysterious rumors of the friendliness of the kiwi people. And over the years when I was backpacking around the world, I often met people from New Zealand, and I was struck by how kind they were. That being said, I was not prepared for just how friendly and sweet EVERYONE is in New Zealand.
And I mean EVERYONE! Not even exaggerating.
From the shopkeepers to the bartenders to the average person walking down the street, if there is one thing you can always count on in New Zealand is just how lovely and friendly everyone is.
Moving abroad is scary. Moving abroad to a new country without knowing a single person is absolutely terrifying. However, picking a place with super friendly people has made all the difference.
If I don’t leave New Zealand in a year a completely changed person, I don’t even know myself.
2. What Kiwi really means
Kiwi is the name of people from New Zealand as well as New Zealand’s flightless bird. Kiwis as we know them in America are called kiwi fruit. This is an important difference, as I’m sure you can imagine, especially if kiwis are your favorite fruit.
3. Driving on the left is fun, until you get to a roundabout, then it’s terrifying
If I die in a road accident while living in New Zealand, there is a 80% chance that it happened in a roundabout. While in general I think there are a more logical way of directing traffic, it doesn’t make going through them in the wrong direction any less scary. I pretty much scream every time I go through one here, especially the ones with double lanes.
4. The more sheep than people rumor is not false
So the rumor that there are more sheep than people in New Zealand is not exactly false, as I quickly found out. After leaving sprawling urban Auckland, the complete lack of people took me by surprise. Driving down to Wellington, I would drive for ages and sometimes not see other cars.
Once you get outside of the cities in Wellington, you quickly realize that there are just not a lot of people about. New Zealand really is the end of the world. And yeah, there are a lot of sheep. Everywhere.
But now that spring is here, all the lambs have been born which means adorable, fluffy, baby sheep EVERYWHERE!
5. New Zealand is freaking expensive, but not as expensive as Australia
When I was packing for New Zealand, I made an executive decision to leave my hiking boots at home. I figured I since NZ is such an outdoorsy place, I could pick up a nice pair once I got here. My old ones needed to be tossed and I didn’t want to waste the luggage space.
What a stupid decision, my god!
I went to go buy hiking boots in Wellington, and the pair I wanted was 450 NZD – that’s roughly 375 USD which is roughly twice as much as back home.
Because everything is virtually imported to NZ, things are expensive. For example, I usually drop around $80 on my weekly groceries.
But then I went to Australia and realized NZ was cheap in comparison.
Looks like I’ll be hiking in my running sneakers!
6. NZ has the worst internet in the entire world
No, I am not exaggerating. I’ve had better internet in Africa. In Jordan. In rural Turkey.
When I first heard rumors of shoddy internet in NZ before moving there, I laughed it off. I thought those stories were not up to date or relevant any more. Boy, was I mistaken.
As I understand it from my tech friends, NZ is literally at the end of the under-the-ocean-magic-internet-cable. Literally, it’s the last stop for internet, which means it’s really bad, really slow, and really expensive. It’s also limited. LIMITED!! I didn’t even know limited internet was a thing!
Without a doubt this will be the hardest challenge I have to overcome this year.
7. There are a lot of foreigners in New Zealand
New Zealand is an amazing, empty place. I think one of my favorite things about this country is that it’s so remote with so few people. That being said, there are a surprising amount of foreigners to be found around the islands.
NZ has a very open working holiday scheme which means many people from around the world can come and easily get a visa to work and travel around the country. Also NZ is a popular travel destination. Pretty much everyone I’ve met has NZ on their travel bucket list.
This means there are lots of foreigners around town, which for me is both a positive and a negative. Negative because I want to go native and fit in with the locals which can be challenging, but also awesome because I get to make friends with people from all over the world.
8. But no Americans in NZ
That being said, there are NO AMERICANS IN NEW ZEALAND. Fellow countrymen, where are you?
This past month (ok, month and a half) I have flown to NZ from the US, and I have flown from NZ to Europe. From San Francisco, Auckland is a 12 hour direct flight. From Wellington to London, it took me approximately 40 hours of travel time and 4 flights.
How many Brits have I met so far on my journey? Dozens. Germans? A million. How many Americans? One.
What the hell?
Expect a lengthly post about this phenomenon shortly.
9. Rent is per week not per month
Completely random but for those curious-minded folks, apartments are listed with rent prices per week not per month. It’s a confusing but interesting phenomenon which somehow makes the extremely high cost of living more palatable.
And speaking of apartments, they are called flats like in the UK and the deposit is called a bond. Speaking English is hard.
10. Getting the bill in the restaurant
The first time I went out for a meal at a sit-down restaurant in New Zealand, I was surprised by several things. Firstly, the food is phenomenal. Seriously, there are some damn good restaurants to be found in this part of the world. And don’e even get me started on brunch.
However, at the end of the meal I was confused. When were they going to bring the bill? We sat and waited and waited and waited before getting the attention of someone to bring the check. Quickly they explained that you pay at the register and not at the table. Soon I figured out this was standard around NZ.
Can anyone explain this to me?
Instead of having the waiters bring you the check, it’s standard for you to get up when you’re finished and head to the register to pay directly.
This is not universal but I’ve definitely encountered it way more here than anywhere else in the world.
11. Likewise, you usually have to go up and grab a jug of water and cups
Same goes for water. Most of the time they don’t bring water to you, even if you ask. They have sinks or jugs set up for you to grab it yourself.
I haven’t decided how I feel about this yet. It’s an internal struggle between my inherent laziness and my urge to be in control of everything. First world problems.
12. The brunch culture will blow your mind
Hi my name’s Liz, and I am addicted to brunches.
Heavy pancakes. Crispy French toast. Fluffy poached eggs smothered in decadent Hollandaise sauce. Swoon.
One of my favorite things about home was brunching with friends on the weekends. One of the things I hated most about Spain was the total dearth of brunch spots to be found. Lucky for me, NZ is the best of both worlds and has an amazing brunch scene. Everywhere.
13. NZ has the best coffee in the UNIVERSE
In addition to a great foodie scene, there is a thriving cafe culture which means awesome coffee all the time.
I have not had a disappointing cup of joe since I arrived which says a lot considering I’m the world’s biggest coffee addict.
And just like there are new words for everything in NZ, I’ve learned a lot of new coffee vocabulary too. For example, when I get a nonfat or skinny latte, here they call it a trim latte. Makes me feel so classy.
Same goes for a flat white, a type of espresso coffee in New Zealand. A new favorite.
14. Wellington is actually the coolest little capital in the world
I talked before about how much hype Wellington was getting and how it initially put me off living there. But then I arrived and fell head over heels in love with this city.
Proudly named the 2011 Lonely Planet “Coolest little capital in the world,” the buzz around town actually lives up to expectations. In short, Wellington rocks, and I am so so SO happy I decided to make it my home.
15. Everyone in Wellington knows someone who works for WETA or the Hobbit
Sometimes I have to remind myself that not everyone is as big of a nerd as me, and they don’t realize that part of Wellington’s fame comes from the fact that it’s home to WETA, the design studio behind the Lord of the Rings.
Now with the Hobbit franchise in full swing, WETA employs tons and tons of people, which means when I go out at night, there is a good chance I’ll meet someone somehow associated with the project. That is, if they ever leave the studios.
I think you can imagine my reactions when this happens.
16. Finding Peter Jackson has been harder than I thought
One month into my time in Wellington and I have yet to find and shake hands with the most famous son of New Zealand (apart from Sir Edmund Hillary), the man, the myth, the legend – Peter Jackson.
Of course I count this as a giant failure. Luckily I still have 1o months to go.
Anyone can make an intro for me?
17. Windy Wellington lives up to its name
Wellington is nicknamed “Windy Welly” and let me just say, a more accurate epithet never existed.
I’ve been to some windy places over the years, but nothing could have prepared for Wellington. Most days it’s just average level of winds that will mess up your hair and might blow your skirt up. However, in just a month I’ve witnessed some wind storms where I thought the world was ending.
I’m talking wind that will blow your clothes clean off. One week we had 140 km/h winds for three days. I couldn’t leave the house. Those are the moments where you realize you’re living at the end of the world.
18. Earthquakes
My first week living in Wellington we had an earthquake. I had gone out for a wine tasting that evening, so it’s safe to say I was pretty sloshed by the time I rolled home a few hours later. Climbing into bed, I was closing my eyes when the room started to shake. My hopes that it was just a big gust of the famous wind were dashed when my roommate popped his head in to check on me.
I’m from Virginia. We don’t get earthquakes. I don’t know how to react.
I know there are more and more bigger earthquakes happening in New Zealand, and let me just preface this by saying I am SO not ready for a big one.
In fact, they are so prevalent, many Kiwis I’ve met have an earthquake app on their phone that let’s them know about them. Can I just stick with Candy Crush?
19. No drunken behavior
I learned real fast my first month in NZ that I had to bring my passport out with me to the bars to show ID. I haven’t had to show ID to go out drinking since living in the US, let alone bring my passport.
NZ is also pretty vigilant about drunken behavior. They don’t let belligerent people in bars and will kick you out without a second thought.
One of my last nights in Wellington I was out at a bar with friends and while we were waiting for drinks, a group of young drunk guys were getting rowdy on the dancefloor. Suddenly, I saw one of the bouncers head over to kick him out. Causing a scene, eventually the guy picked him up and carried the dude out on his shoulders. The kid was so waster he was high-fiving and cheering everyone on his way out. Hilarious.
20. The wildlife is slightly different from what I’m used to back home in Virginia
21. Shit happens and you can’t plan for everything
So basically I’ve had the worst luck in the entire world my first month in New Zealand. I legally cannot write the specifics so far, but let me just say there’s a reason I’ve not been online as much as I meant to. My first month was a struggle, but I’ve been trying to make the best of it.
Something bad happened which I’m trying to deal with that’s costing me a lot of money.
If anything, it’s been a good lesson on trying to look on the bright side and be positive. Fingers crossed it will all work out for the best.
22. No matter where you are in NZ, you are approximately 15 minutes from somewhere spectacularly beautiful
New Zealand is ridiculously beautiful. No matter where you are in the entire country, you are likely a stone’s throw away from a place that will make your jaw drop open in awe.
This is probably my favorite thing about NZ. I need beautiful landscapes and lush natural spots to feel comfortable and at peace. Lucky for me, New Zealand has that in strides.
23. I already love New Zealand to pieces and I never want to leave
Only a month in and I can already see myself settling in NZ permanently. It already feels like home to me.
My whole life I feel like I’ve been searching for that special place where I can settle down. Maybe it’ll be New Zealand.
Have you ever been to New Zealand? Is it on your bucket list? Ever transitioned abroad before? What’s something you learned in your new country?
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Oh boy. My wife and I lived in NZ for a couple years. Its an nice place to live for a while when you are young or maybe retire to after you have saved your first million. But if you are at the age of raising a family and need to get a home then you HAVE TO LEAVE. Its just too expensive and the wages are really bad. My wife are both professionals and are now back in North America.
Mark, North America is the place to be. My husband is a kiwi and as much as I love him and want to please him by going to NZ once in a while, I count the hours to my return back home. Great place to visit, but nothing beats the beautiful America!!!
For an American to call a place bad, it must be hell on earth. Australia dude. Trust me. It’s completely different. Nothing like NZ at all. Have quite a few yank friends (and we live in a small town in the middle of nowhere) and you won’t pry them out of Australia with a crow bar.
If you are young you also should not consider coming to New Zealand, unless you are a nature and sports fanatic. In that case this is your heaven. If you appreciate history, culture, shopping and non-nature related activities you might not like it at all! However if you want to retire and you have lots of money this is the perfect place to be.
GREAT blog. I went to NZ last year and fell in love from day one. I didn’t want to come back to the states. For the record, your list was dead on! You made me smile and brought back some good memories. Especially on my day visit to Hobbiton.
I’ve been considering a permanent move but don’t know what it would take to do that. I also don’t know what the job market is like. What has your experience been like.
Cool website! Not all migrants have an amazing time, though. I know a handful that decided NZ was definitely not for them after about a year or so, two years (want to know where all the Americans are? Many of them had higher expectations due to the public relations campaigns, and after “trying a life there”, have moved on). New Zealand is a beautiful country, the air is in many places fresh, clouds very pretty, beaches very accessible, landscape (whether sheep or bush) nice too, a photographer’s dream really. It stops there. You cannot eat scenery. Cost of living is VERY expensive. A house that would cost you 65K in the States will cost you 250K in NZ. It has other problems, as well. The houses are built really Mickey Mouse (no insulation, etc.) for what they cost, they have no serious “war on drugs” (and I personally think they should start a mini-one), there are high rheumatic fever and meningitis rates (almost unheard of at those rates in the U.S., and we’re talking per capita, not in absolute numbers…we are talking about your chance of catching it because of its general prevalence, not number of cases per se, which is the argument they often cite against those figures…very tragic for the children), or bullying in the schools or systematic rorting of foreigners, etc., this type of information is not always easy to find. I was surprised to encounter some of these things when I lived there in the mid-2000s because its projected image is so “pure”. There are a few websites that set out the downsides (google-able, E2NZ for instance) and describe some of the less glowing migration experiences. You will see angry people on there – but if you just set aside their upset tone, their experiences ARE authentic. Very valuable information if you really want to move to New Zealand, but you want to be prepared for the bad stuff! Most of the bad stuff you will encounter by trying to settle there, not on short-term visits, which are usually spectacularly fun–because you’re on vacation and burning money. Living anywhere at all outside of your home country “seriously”, as a resident and jobseeker, etc., for years on end is always a different matter. And NZ is the same in that way. Best to avoid the pitfalls and google the problems you might find, if you want to move there.
Hi guys
My name is PK from South Africa.
I am going to NZ in Jan 2015, for the first time. I can’t wait.
Hi PK
I am also from South Africa and my family and I am starting the immigration process to NZ in Jan 2015. Would love to have contact with you to chat about the process and get an idea of life over there from a South African point of view. Please let me know if you would be open for communication.
Cheers
Juanré
Go to Australia. Much easier. Better jobs. People are generally very friendly except for some hick towns in QLD. Much better internet. Everythings cheaper. Lots of South Africans. Exceptional work conditions and pay. Awesome beaches and best of all. Warm!
Far less hoons depending on where you are and they generally harmless. Not so in NZ. If you prepared to work in the middle of no where like Alice Springs, Broken Hill, Mt Isa etc. it’s even easier and you can get employer sponsored (sometimes even state sponsored)
Like someone here said. You can’t eat scenery. That’s the fundamental NZ problem. I might actually retire there but have no illusions about trying to live and work over there. Remember the young adventurer is a tourist. Completely different to living and working and raising kids. They always nice to tourists!
Hey Pk same here we on the same boat, going there too next month can’t wait either
Hey me too! Well not the South Afriacan part (I’m Canadian/British) but I’ve got a 1 way ticket to NZ for late January! I’m Terrified/Excited Haha!
Hi Glorious, Juanre and PK
my self and my husband are also int he application process from South Africa, do you guys have any advice or agents through which we can operate?
regards,
C
hi, also from south africa and seriously thinking about leaving. at first i only read how amazing new zealand is….after some more research, im hearing more and more negative things which is giving me second thoughts. so scared to make the wrong decision. how do you REALLY know who to believe, what is the REAL situation over there…..a person dont want to give up everything just to discover they kind of have the same problems we have in our country. gosh, im so torn in 2 just want the best life possible for my children.
I am also interested to settle down there please share with me about your experience of documents. Thanks
Hi PK
How was your experience? Are you still in NZ?
I am Canadian, and wanting to move to New Zealand. I have my reservations, based on things that I have read, however, not intimidated. I just don’t know how to legally do it. I am over the 35 years of age magic number that apparently makes me more attractive. I have some education, and definitely many skills, but is it enough for the ‘required’ I’m not sure. Not afraid of the isolation, as I grew up in extreme northern Ontario, so I am prepared. I am not poor, but I also don’t have tons of money either. I just don’t know where to start. I am dating someone from New Zealand, and I would like to move there on my own, any advise from experience would be greatly appreciated.
check list for going or moving to New Zealand
from the government _ this one covers driving and a bit more
httpss://youtube.com/watch?v=kD-Ml7mMXBg
http://nzready.immigration.govt.nz/#/
this is the checklist!
this story is the best I’ve ever read about new Zealand because I came from india
and think about the same
Hello Ella, I’m in process of applying for NZ immigration. How long have you been there and how do you rate from a Indians point of view specially when we are used to the crowd and cheap cost of living.
A lot of Indians do well in New ZEALAND. I GUESS IT IS BSCAUSE YOU ARE A HARD WORKING BUNCH. IMMIGRATION NZ VISA PROCESS REALLY SUCK THOUGH!
hey .. i want to know about cost of living in NZ for an indian .. and how’s the studies there ..