I can hardly believe that it’s been over a month since I stepped off the plane in Auckland. Well a month and a half now as I’m back in Europe for work and my poor blog took a backburner for a week. My bad. It’s been 30 days of ups and downs, highs and lows, everything you might expect from a big move abroad.
New Zealand has been everything I wished for and more. It’s almost hard for me to articulate my feelings and emotions so far on this adventure. That being said, it takes a lot for me to be at a loss for words. Born an overly verbose person who has trouble shutting up at the best of times, I’ve spent the past few weeks contemplating this big transition abroad and how best to share it with you all in the least wordy way possible.
Reflecting on my first month in New Zealand, if I had to sum up my experience in one sentence, it would be, “wow, that was a learning experience.”
Let me just tell you, I’ve learned a whole hell of a lot. From improving my kiwi slang vocabulary to acquiring some profound life lessons, the old adage “you’re never too old to learn something new” has never been more true than my first month down under.
Check out 20 things I’ve learned during my first 30 days in New Zealand
1. New Zealanders are the friendliest people in the world
Before I bought a one-way flight to Auckland, I had heard mysterious rumors of the friendliness of the kiwi people. And over the years when I was backpacking around the world, I often met people from New Zealand, and I was struck by how kind they were. That being said, I was not prepared for just how friendly and sweet EVERYONE is in New Zealand.
And I mean EVERYONE! Not even exaggerating.
From the shopkeepers to the bartenders to the average person walking down the street, if there is one thing you can always count on in New Zealand is just how lovely and friendly everyone is.
Moving abroad is scary. Moving abroad to a new country without knowing a single person is absolutely terrifying. However, picking a place with super friendly people has made all the difference.
If I don’t leave New Zealand in a year a completely changed person, I don’t even know myself.
2. What Kiwi really means
Kiwi is the name of people from New Zealand as well as New Zealand’s flightless bird. Kiwis as we know them in America are called kiwi fruit. This is an important difference, as I’m sure you can imagine, especially if kiwis are your favorite fruit.
3. Driving on the left is fun, until you get to a roundabout, then it’s terrifying
If I die in a road accident while living in New Zealand, there is a 80% chance that it happened in a roundabout. While in general I think there are a more logical way of directing traffic, it doesn’t make going through them in the wrong direction any less scary. I pretty much scream every time I go through one here, especially the ones with double lanes.
4. The more sheep than people rumor is not false
So the rumor that there are more sheep than people in New Zealand is not exactly false, as I quickly found out. After leaving sprawling urban Auckland, the complete lack of people took me by surprise. Driving down to Wellington, I would drive for ages and sometimes not see other cars.
Once you get outside of the cities in Wellington, you quickly realize that there are just not a lot of people about. New Zealand really is the end of the world. And yeah, there are a lot of sheep. Everywhere.
But now that spring is here, all the lambs have been born which means adorable, fluffy, baby sheep EVERYWHERE!
5. New Zealand is freaking expensive, but not as expensive as Australia
When I was packing for New Zealand, I made an executive decision to leave my hiking boots at home. I figured I since NZ is such an outdoorsy place, I could pick up a nice pair once I got here. My old ones needed to be tossed and I didn’t want to waste the luggage space.
What a stupid decision, my god!
I went to go buy hiking boots in Wellington, and the pair I wanted was 450 NZD – that’s roughly 375 USD which is roughly twice as much as back home.
Because everything is virtually imported to NZ, things are expensive. For example, I usually drop around $80 on my weekly groceries.
But then I went to Australia and realized NZ was cheap in comparison.
Looks like I’ll be hiking in my running sneakers!
6. NZ has the worst internet in the entire world
No, I am not exaggerating. I’ve had better internet in Africa. In Jordan. In rural Turkey.
When I first heard rumors of shoddy internet in NZ before moving there, I laughed it off. I thought those stories were not up to date or relevant any more. Boy, was I mistaken.
As I understand it from my tech friends, NZ is literally at the end of the under-the-ocean-magic-internet-cable. Literally, it’s the last stop for internet, which means it’s really bad, really slow, and really expensive. It’s also limited. LIMITED!! I didn’t even know limited internet was a thing!
Without a doubt this will be the hardest challenge I have to overcome this year.
7. There are a lot of foreigners in New Zealand
New Zealand is an amazing, empty place. I think one of my favorite things about this country is that it’s so remote with so few people. That being said, there are a surprising amount of foreigners to be found around the islands.
NZ has a very open working holiday scheme which means many people from around the world can come and easily get a visa to work and travel around the country. Also NZ is a popular travel destination. Pretty much everyone I’ve met has NZ on their travel bucket list.
This means there are lots of foreigners around town, which for me is both a positive and a negative. Negative because I want to go native and fit in with the locals which can be challenging, but also awesome because I get to make friends with people from all over the world.
8. But no Americans in NZ
That being said, there are NO AMERICANS IN NEW ZEALAND. Fellow countrymen, where are you?
This past month (ok, month and a half) I have flown to NZ from the US, and I have flown from NZ to Europe. From San Francisco, Auckland is a 12 hour direct flight. From Wellington to London, it took me approximately 40 hours of travel time and 4 flights.
How many Brits have I met so far on my journey? Dozens. Germans? A million. How many Americans? One.
What the hell?
Expect a lengthly post about this phenomenon shortly.
9. Rent is per week not per month
Completely random but for those curious-minded folks, apartments are listed with rent prices per week not per month. It’s a confusing but interesting phenomenon which somehow makes the extremely high cost of living more palatable.
And speaking of apartments, they are called flats like in the UK and the deposit is called a bond. Speaking English is hard.
10. Getting the bill in the restaurant
The first time I went out for a meal at a sit-down restaurant in New Zealand, I was surprised by several things. Firstly, the food is phenomenal. Seriously, there are some damn good restaurants to be found in this part of the world. And don’e even get me started on brunch.
However, at the end of the meal I was confused. When were they going to bring the bill? We sat and waited and waited and waited before getting the attention of someone to bring the check. Quickly they explained that you pay at the register and not at the table. Soon I figured out this was standard around NZ.
Can anyone explain this to me?
Instead of having the waiters bring you the check, it’s standard for you to get up when you’re finished and head to the register to pay directly.
This is not universal but I’ve definitely encountered it way more here than anywhere else in the world.
11. Likewise, you usually have to go up and grab a jug of water and cups
Same goes for water. Most of the time they don’t bring water to you, even if you ask. They have sinks or jugs set up for you to grab it yourself.
I haven’t decided how I feel about this yet. It’s an internal struggle between my inherent laziness and my urge to be in control of everything. First world problems.
12. The brunch culture will blow your mind
Hi my name’s Liz, and I am addicted to brunches.
Heavy pancakes. Crispy French toast. Fluffy poached eggs smothered in decadent Hollandaise sauce. Swoon.
One of my favorite things about home was brunching with friends on the weekends. One of the things I hated most about Spain was the total dearth of brunch spots to be found. Lucky for me, NZ is the best of both worlds and has an amazing brunch scene. Everywhere.
13. NZ has the best coffee in the UNIVERSE
In addition to a great foodie scene, there is a thriving cafe culture which means awesome coffee all the time.
I have not had a disappointing cup of joe since I arrived which says a lot considering I’m the world’s biggest coffee addict.
And just like there are new words for everything in NZ, I’ve learned a lot of new coffee vocabulary too. For example, when I get a nonfat or skinny latte, here they call it a trim latte. Makes me feel so classy.
Same goes for a flat white, a type of espresso coffee in New Zealand. A new favorite.
14. Wellington is actually the coolest little capital in the world
I talked before about how much hype Wellington was getting and how it initially put me off living there. But then I arrived and fell head over heels in love with this city.
Proudly named the 2011 Lonely Planet “Coolest little capital in the world,” the buzz around town actually lives up to expectations. In short, Wellington rocks, and I am so so SO happy I decided to make it my home.
15. Everyone in Wellington knows someone who works for WETA or the Hobbit
Sometimes I have to remind myself that not everyone is as big of a nerd as me, and they don’t realize that part of Wellington’s fame comes from the fact that it’s home to WETA, the design studio behind the Lord of the Rings.
Now with the Hobbit franchise in full swing, WETA employs tons and tons of people, which means when I go out at night, there is a good chance I’ll meet someone somehow associated with the project. That is, if they ever leave the studios.
I think you can imagine my reactions when this happens.
16. Finding Peter Jackson has been harder than I thought
One month into my time in Wellington and I have yet to find and shake hands with the most famous son of New Zealand (apart from Sir Edmund Hillary), the man, the myth, the legend – Peter Jackson.
Of course I count this as a giant failure. Luckily I still have 1o months to go.
Anyone can make an intro for me?
17. Windy Wellington lives up to its name
Wellington is nicknamed “Windy Welly” and let me just say, a more accurate epithet never existed.
I’ve been to some windy places over the years, but nothing could have prepared for Wellington. Most days it’s just average level of winds that will mess up your hair and might blow your skirt up. However, in just a month I’ve witnessed some wind storms where I thought the world was ending.
I’m talking wind that will blow your clothes clean off. One week we had 140 km/h winds for three days. I couldn’t leave the house. Those are the moments where you realize you’re living at the end of the world.
18. Earthquakes
My first week living in Wellington we had an earthquake. I had gone out for a wine tasting that evening, so it’s safe to say I was pretty sloshed by the time I rolled home a few hours later. Climbing into bed, I was closing my eyes when the room started to shake. My hopes that it was just a big gust of the famous wind were dashed when my roommate popped his head in to check on me.
I’m from Virginia. We don’t get earthquakes. I don’t know how to react.
I know there are more and more bigger earthquakes happening in New Zealand, and let me just preface this by saying I am SO not ready for a big one.
In fact, they are so prevalent, many Kiwis I’ve met have an earthquake app on their phone that let’s them know about them. Can I just stick with Candy Crush?
19. No drunken behavior
I learned real fast my first month in NZ that I had to bring my passport out with me to the bars to show ID. I haven’t had to show ID to go out drinking since living in the US, let alone bring my passport.
NZ is also pretty vigilant about drunken behavior. They don’t let belligerent people in bars and will kick you out without a second thought.
One of my last nights in Wellington I was out at a bar with friends and while we were waiting for drinks, a group of young drunk guys were getting rowdy on the dancefloor. Suddenly, I saw one of the bouncers head over to kick him out. Causing a scene, eventually the guy picked him up and carried the dude out on his shoulders. The kid was so waster he was high-fiving and cheering everyone on his way out. Hilarious.
20. The wildlife is slightly different from what I’m used to back home in Virginia
21. Shit happens and you can’t plan for everything
So basically I’ve had the worst luck in the entire world my first month in New Zealand. I legally cannot write the specifics so far, but let me just say there’s a reason I’ve not been online as much as I meant to. My first month was a struggle, but I’ve been trying to make the best of it.
Something bad happened which I’m trying to deal with that’s costing me a lot of money.
If anything, it’s been a good lesson on trying to look on the bright side and be positive. Fingers crossed it will all work out for the best.
22. No matter where you are in NZ, you are approximately 15 minutes from somewhere spectacularly beautiful
New Zealand is ridiculously beautiful. No matter where you are in the entire country, you are likely a stone’s throw away from a place that will make your jaw drop open in awe.
This is probably my favorite thing about NZ. I need beautiful landscapes and lush natural spots to feel comfortable and at peace. Lucky for me, New Zealand has that in strides.
23. I already love New Zealand to pieces and I never want to leave
Only a month in and I can already see myself settling in NZ permanently. It already feels like home to me.
My whole life I feel like I’ve been searching for that special place where I can settle down. Maybe it’ll be New Zealand.
Have you ever been to New Zealand? Is it on your bucket list? Ever transitioned abroad before? What’s something you learned in your new country?
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By the way LIZ from the hundreds of videos I have watched your summary appears pretty accurate. Good stuff on this Blog
Hi, I am a Fine Art graduate with over 21 years experience in the news paper industry (Graphics). Problem is I’m clocking 51 years and wanted to shift with my family there. People keep telling me to get a job I will have to under-quote my experience and play down my Resume too as I hold lofty position back here in India. How true is this. Been told people are nice but internally a little averse towards Mr. Browns
Joeffry from Goa – I would stay in Goa if I were you.
Stop plundering your rhetoric. It’s dull. If you don’t like New Zealand, please leave (hopefully you’re no longer in this beautiful country). It isn’t perfect, but it’s awesome for many people.
I’m from Virginia as well and always wanted to travel. How would you afford something such as a passport or be able to travel on a budget of sorts.
I live in the US and am thinking about moving to NZ. My jaw dropped when I saw the price for rent! $550 a week? I pay $400 a month. Thier minimum wage is $14 and change. It will take your whole paycheck just for rent, then you starve with no water or electricity.
I did find a place for only $250 a week, but it was just to park your car. Now your blog says there is little internet? My business IS the internet. Maybe I will just buy a van and explore the US. It will be cheaper.
The average rental rate in Auckland has just got to $500 a week. Auckland is much MUCH more expensive than the rest of NZ for housing so this is not an accurate representation of NZ rentals. I live in New Plymouth and the average rental goes for approx. $100 per room in the house – so a 3 bedroom house would be approx. $300 per week. Going to the smaller centers (instead of the big cities) will be cheaper, easier to get around, and will likely give you a better slice of kiwi lifestyle. Also, the internet isn’t so bad if you have a fiber connection (which is becoming very common) I expect that the internet experienced by a traveler staying in backpacking hostels/ any kind of temporary accom would be bad… but if you need good internet, it wouldn’t be too hard to make it happen. Many businesses here run off the internet… I’ve even managed to write this post!! I have no doubt your van trip in the US would be cheaper (I have done one of those myself) but if you really are interested in getting out and seeing the world, I couldn’t recommend it more… just don’t live in Auckland 🙂
Even rent isn’t thaaat bad, I lived in Auckland and rented a very modern 1 ensuite apartment with great views and a 15min walk to work in the center of Auckland. Cost me $360/w NZD, this flat was my own, I shared it with no one, but if you flat with someone the prices goes way down, I like my personal space.
I also lived in Wellington, AMAZING city, everything awesome is in the center, unlike Auckland, and is within walking distance. I rented a ensuite flat there for $200/w NZD, in the great suburb of Brooklyn, you can walk into the CBD in about 30 mins (fast walking), or take the bus, though no busses in the weekend, you have to walk into central brooklyn to catch a bus.
Also yeah Internet can be expensive if you’re a heavy user, but it’s by no means slow if you pick a good ISP. And yes if you can get fibre it’s super fast too, but ADSL/VDSL is fine for 99% of things, again if you pick a good ISP, as the bad ones over subscribe. (e.g. 2degrees is a good ISP)
But yeah, New Zealand isn’t a magical place, it’s got plenty of drawdowns, but definitely a great place to live if you’re outdoorsy.
Good morning
My family and I are seriously thinking about moving to new zealand. Can you perhaps give me a bit more details regarding the drawdowns of the country. Or where I can research this?
I don’t think you’ll regret moving to NZ. It is a beautiful country.
Just don’t move to Auckland unless you can walk into a very well paid job. Auckland’s housing market has just risen hugely so it is very expo live there. Plus they are packing in so many apartments and townhouses the city is getting overcrowded.
Hi, Teri. I’m from Singapore and considering if I should move to NZ. I’m wondering, most jobs are in the big cities, so if I move to smaller centers, won’t be troublesome to commute to the bigger city everyday for work? and is the transportation there expensive? any other advice? im not a very outdoorsy person, but i would love to become one. 🙂
Hey Teri,
The traffic isn’t terrible unless you are in Auckland. Taxis are quite expensive. Buses are usually cheap and petrol prices have dropped a considerable amount but just like everywhere they will probably go up again. My advice to you is not to go off Auckland housing prices from looking online, we are actually in the middle of a housing crisis in Auckland, in a different part of New Zealand you could get a 4 bedroom, two story, two bathroom house for $500,000 and rent isn’t as expensive as people make it out to be.
Hope this helps!
Hello, im from all the way from the other side, i dont know if you even heard the country Guatemala hehehe..
Well we are planning to go visit NZ for 3 weeks , and my question is , you think we could rent a apartment, house or something for those 3 weeks? is thi posible for tourists? or do you have to local or is there a special requirement to rent??
Thanks, and sorry to bother you
Hi Kevin,
I’m a kiwi born and bred. You can rent a place, check out bookabach.co.nz or holiday rentals.co.nz, we also have Air B’n’B…. depending what you”re after it could be anywhere from 40 per night up to thousands, deepening what you’re after.
NZ is an amazing place and best seen while you take your time.
Enjoy our beautiful country, and FYI, just about every kiwi born before 1995 knows about Guatemala…. 🙂 google Guatemala and Shortland St (terrible kiwi tv show)
🙂
I live in New Zealand and currently using Fast unlimited internet. 🙂
Hi. My name is Iden El Sayyed and im a 23 years old male who works at a bank in Lebanon. I have been thinking to travel and live in a peacefull and quite country. New Zealand seems to be a beautiful place to live in. How can i immigrate to Nz? Any help?
How much do you pay for the unlimited internet service, and where do you reside?
Unlimited internet service costs around NZD $100 a month
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i live in New Zealand in a small town tucked 1 hour and a half away from the auckland region and i love my country and i thought that i would say some cool tourist places to visit in my opinion ,
one of the top places to visit is the sky tower as it has cool views of auckland and a spinning restaurant another cool place is the giant L&p bottle it makes a very cool travel picture or a tiki tour photo. I also recommend going to Rotorua it is packed with things to do -Waimangu volcanic valley , Rainbow springs kiwi wildlife park , the museum (of art and history)- just to name a few. i also adore the auckland museum as it has cool information and down every corridor is a new place to learn it has volcanic room with volcano simulators and rooms with ancient history from Asia , Greece , Egypt and more and just so you know i am not JAFA I’m just a person who likes sharing information. and if you ever come to NZ make sure you know Kiwis invented the Pavlova and it is a must have food in New Zealand.
I hope this helps anyone who wants to visit our beautiful country New Zealand. If you are coming to NZ i wish you all the best or your travels.
Hi, Lily, as you said in your comment “I’m just a person who likes sharing information.” please let me know how to contact you cause I’m planing to start small work / setup there but don’t have much knowledge about auckland. I am from Muscat Oman
I’m Australian and we claim that we invented the pavlova :D. Agree that it is delicious, it is a must try.
Hey Marilyn, different places in New Zealand have cheaper rent – all the main centres such as Wellington, Auckland etc are the most expensive. I live in Hawkes Bay and it’s a nice wee place to live and not too expensive 🙂
For God’s sake… Don’t move to NZ if your business is the internet! Their internet sucks! They put fiber only in some places 2 year ago. They are so backwards. It’s an isolated island after all.
wow! where do you live in america that you pay that??!!
I have lived in seattle, las vegas, and hawaii (on 3 different islands) and even my house that I rent out in rural big island is for $700 usd/mo and THAT is cheap!
Moving from honolulu to wellington is a fairly lateral move: wages, rent/mortgage, bills, food are about the same but new zealand has much better affordable healthcare and schooling. I wish everyone the best of luck going to nz for a visit or for life. their government website is amazing and very helpful. newzealandnow.govt.nz